All units have a sliding glass door to access to the backyard.
Yes they can and will!
I once had tenants complaining about tenant in Apt xxx. I finally had to go up to that tenant to tell them to KEEP THEIR CURTAINS & BLINDS CLOSED when they were inside and if they refuse, I will automatically evict them!
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On the other side is a quarter-slab “basketball shooting” section (the paved area was there… originally for the dumpsters, were moved to the front right corner of property due to safety and enabling the sanitation department to empty the dumpster out without damaging tenant’s property and my building), which a former Tenant found and we put the pole with backboard already mounted. The middle part has two picnic tables and a double BBQ (old defunct park cast iron that I bought for $5 in an auction) grills. I also had installed 2 pools and an expanded net so they can play badminton or volleyball.
I never had to go up to ANY of my tenants to tell them to close their curtains / blinds!
The Personnel that I hired to run background checks, failed to “catch” this all because they look for drug, alcohol, and violence! I fired them and hired someone else who actually DOES the full line of work!
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Not only were both couples arrested for incident exposure, plus incident exposure to minors (under age of 16, under age of 13, under age of 10 and under). I evicted them on the spot.
They refused, so they all turned to me, where one mother took a couple of photos and a video to show the problem.
Now folks, do you see why I had to go up to their house and tell them to keep the curtains & blinds closed!
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
They were given a “written warning of violation”. They did close the curtains and the blinds. Well, that was short lived and they were right back at it again, and one father called me AFTER they phoned the police!
The backyard is common to all - while it’s fenced in… all tenants are allowed to use the backyard. There’s a small playground on the left corner side of the property that has a swing set, a see-saw and a couple of springy animals and a medium sized sand pit, and a tether-ball pole, on the far north side was the dog run, where their dogs can peep and poop and run.
What was the problem?
What does Jesus mean in Revelation 3:3 when He states, "Wake up! Strengthen what remains and is about to die, for I have found your deeds unfinished in the sight of my God?"
When the new tenants (smack in the middle) moved in. They loved to romp around in their birthday suits (totally nude) and they would roam around in the house. Well the problem was this, there’s people in the backyard, children to adults. They took it upon themselves to ask them nicely to ‘keep the blinds / curtains closed’. (I mean this is common sense.)
I was expecting them or one of them to post bond and get their stuff out. Apparently, the Judge revoked the bond, they had too many priors. It wasn’t until after all their stuff were put in the storage and another couple with twins moved in when I found out what their “priors were”. Incident exposure everywhere!
